Your Favorite Sex Position?Woman On Top! If you want to try a little role reversal, where the woman gets the chance to be dominant, assertive, and take control - not to mention having the chance to get the stimulation she needs to reach orgasm - then the great thing about woman on top sex is that there are so many variations, all of which offer their own pleasure. For example:
Well now, woman on top sex! What's to be said about it? The thrill of having her riding you? The excitement of feeling her weight on top of you, your erect penis totally enclosed by her vagina, her breasts bobbing up and down as she controls the rhythm and speed of sex? The fact that you don't have to do anything except lie back and enjoy it? Ahhhh...and there's the problem, perhaps. You don't like to give up control during lovemaking? You feel that, as a man, you have to satisfy your partner? That her sexual pleasure somehow depends on you taking her to orgasm? Well, here's the thing: woman on top sex offers the man the chance to lie back and enjoy it. Far from that place where you have to take charge and fulfill your partner's deepest desires, this is the way to practice relinquishing control, to give up the belief that the man has to lead and initiate during sex - at least every so often. For men who are performance oriented, this can be very challenging. Indeed, for men in general, giving up control during sex can be a difficult practice. And that's why it's such a good thing to do......the benefits might include a more relaxed attitude to sex, a greater sense of equality and intimacy with your partner, and, frankly, a frisson of a thrill when you experience your woman leading you on a sensual journey. But in a way that's not the point of enjoying the ride with the woman on top. Sure, as far as the psychology of the position is concerned, it's all about the impact of changing over roles; and that's a great way to get more pleasure. But as far as the physical aspects of it are concerned, woman on top sex positions are very, very pleasant indeed, always provided that the angle of your erection and the angle of her vagina are well-matched. And even if they aren't, you can always have the woman change the angle at which she's lying on you, so you get a better fit. You can see how that might be done in some of the pictures above. So this is a group of sex positions which will allow the woman the chance of playing the tantalizing tease for her man; she can control how much she allows him to penetrate her, only permitting him to gain access to her "Jade Garden" when she chooses; she can stop him thrusting his hips, making him lie still and surrender to her will; and as she does all these things, she can slide her vagina slowly up and down his shaft to drive him wild with desire. This can arouse his passion and increase his desire, making him burn with passion. And when she finally allows him in, she can control the angle of penetration so finely that she can get exactly the stimulation of her G spot that she desires. And even more thrilling - her clitoris is open to play with her own hand - or his! And, unlike man on top sex, it's easy to change the position without the man withdrawing from his partner - see how the female partner in the pictures above can easily life further forward or backwards, thereby giving them both extra pleasure. And because in most couples the man is bigger than the woman, it's possible for the woman to lie full length on top of her partner without any discomfort for either of them. And now she can either open or close her legs to increase and decrease the tightness of her vagina; that is another way she can give herself more pleasure or slow the man down as he approaches climax by giving him less friction on his manhood as he feels her vagina enclosing his penis. And he can contribute to the different sensations by altering the angle of his knees, raising his pelvis, guiding her hips with his hands, or holding her buttocks.... And now, just think how exciting it can be when she flexes her hips and rotates her pelvis as she rides him - and think how empowering it is for her to be in charge in this way! Given the right movements, she can provide both of them with serious sexual thrills. And as she does so, the man can try various movements of his pelvis, varying the tightness of his PC muscles so that he speeds up or slows down his progress towards orgasm. Now, that's empowering female sexuality.
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